I guess if I was losing 1-2 lbs a weeks it I wouldn’t look into all these crazy diets. BF (before 40) I could lose weight. Not a problem I just couldn’t keep it off. I’m not mad that I’m not losing like before. I have made progress and trying to make life long changes. I also want to be healthy ,not just slimmer. This is where the confusion comes in. You got your vegan, raw,gluten-free, clean eating , primal,no grain people, what the heck am I supposed to eat? I’M NOT SAYING ANY OF THESE ARE WRONG! I’m just puzzled. I thought whole grains were healthy now Dr Mercola says no grains except fruit and veggies. The Health Hound says all fruits and veggies are ok but eat grains only after a work out. I’m a doctor and I’m confused. The Primal/Paleo sounds like Atkins. Did caveman live long enough to be healthy? The more I look at different diets the more I feel frustrated. I don’t know what works the best for me. It ‘s really trial and error and I have to do what makes sense to me. For now I will increase my veggies, continue to eat my fruit, and choose lean proteins and whole grains. You can’t go wrong with that or can you? I would love to hear what works for you.
I went to Brio today for lunch. It is a fabulous restaurant in he Sumerline area of Vegas. My dad gas been a Vegas resident for 15 years so we stay off the strip. The meal today reminded me of growing up. He didn’t eat much. He blames it on the fact that he is 86. He really has never been a big eater. He is an excellent cook and has always maintained his weight. My uncles on my mom’s side would always have plates pile high with food but not my dad. His joy came from watching you eat. Today at lunch my daughter told me she was full. My dad told her to eat a little more. My daughter looked at me because this isn’t something she is used to. I don’t urge her to finish all her food. We are flexible . As long as your eating healthy you can eat as little or as much as you want. My daughter is prone to homemade popcorn or fruit binges. She ate more and my dad literally cheered her on! “Good girl that’s my baby! ” . This brought me back to my childhood. I would get this from him as well as my grandma. It would make me smile and want to eat more. Thank goodness my child whispered to me “mom I can’t eat any more”. She didn’t want to disappoint grandpa. I’m glad she can do that. I am still working on that now. I’m not going to blame my dad for my poor eating habits. He taught me a lot of good ones. Such as eat slowly, savor every bite. Always eat your vegetables and eventually don’t eat too much. The latter he started when I gained weight. The habits we learn from are parents are life long ones. I still clean my plate but I use much smaller plates now. Working on mindful eating part of my plan. What is your plan for mindful eating.
Boredom makes me eat! This has not been a great weekend for me eating healthy. Date night , take out ,then a way to long kids birthday party. Not to mention I didn’t work out because I worked as well as did all these activities. I only planned to snack at the birthday party but this isn’t your average kids party. It was at the country club. They have good fancy food. Tortolini, prosciutto, sliders,red velvet cake. I was doing good but these dang waiters kept coming by. Then as the party dragged on and my child didn’t want to leave I started grazing. I can only smooze so much. I was not hungry. Just bored. It was a doctors party. I can only talk about work and kids so much. Then I walked around and ran into the country club bar. Wine was calling my name. I guess I deserve a weekend off. I will not feel guilty. I started right back on track at dinner. None of that, I already blew it crap! One good thing I noticed that my jeans are getting loose. All but the belly. That’s always the last to go.I will have slip ups but I’m going to lose weight and keep it off.
It’s hard to eat enough when your eating right. Weight loss can drive you crazy! Don’t eat to much, don’t eat to little. When you eat healthy it’s hard to eat enough. I exercise in evening. So by the time I add exercise calories I have to much to eat in evening. I need to eat more in the day. I’m scared to eat more in case I don’t exercise. I think this has been a problem for me with every diet. I never eat enough. It’s something I need to figure out because this has stopped me in my tracks many times. Now that’s it’s almost summer its easier and better to move some of my workouts to morning. It’s to hot in evening. In winter it’s to cold and I hate to get up in the dark. If you eat below your bmr the scale doesn’t budge. I’m finally realize this. You would think as a doctor I would know this and I do. I knew 1200 calories was too low for most people but I figured 1600 was fine for me. I even used a bmr calculator. I just underestimated my activity. You hear you should eat more but don’t believe it. I listen to Jeff & Russ on fat2fitradio.com. Most of there emails discussed people eating to low. I even emailed them when the scale went up. It went down but then I got busy and started eating to low. It didn’t budge. Now I know it works!